Thursday, October 1, 2015

Yes I like makeup, but no, I'm not stupid...


I always find it so humorous to hear what people think about beauty/fashion/lifestyle bloggers. Yes, for the most part, people are beyond sweet and supportive, but as a blogger some things are assumed that are quite hilarious. These are my favorite...

Yes, I blog, but no, I'm not obsessed with Pinterest. Quite frankly, I'd rather read a blog post about a recipe someone got from Pinterest than go on Pinterest itself. Does no one else feel completely overwhelmed by the hundreds of pins per page? Anxiety Level: High!

No, I don't have a Facebook and I don't feel bad about that. Social Media is insane. Literally, just when I figure one thing out it's on to the next. And it's not that I don't enjoy learning new things, I just can't seem to grasp the concept of what any of it is for. Does anyone care that much about what I'm eating that I need to Tweet about it? My own answer to that is a resounding no...

Yes, I love makeup, but no, I'm not stupid. There is such a misconception that if you love wearing/playing/collecting makeup you must have low self-esteem. Or be really conceited. Or have nothing else going on upstairs. The plain and simple fact is putting on my favorite lipstick can totally make my day, the same as having a nice cup of coffee or reading an inspiring quote. Do what makes you happy!

No, I'm not interested in exploiting myself for gain. Have I been offered free stuff? You bet I have. Do I take it? Not always. If I truly believe in a brand or I would have used the product or site anyways, then I have no problem supporting and writing about it. But the point of my blog isn't to make money, it's to write about the things I love and share them with people who appreciate it as much as I do, because that's what I like to do. I consider it more of a hobby than a money maker. It amazes me how many people ask me straight up if I do it to make money. Um, no.

Yes, I love ALL my followers, but no, I'm not aiming towards any set goal. I am as happy at 700 followers as I was at 1 ~ I am always just stunned and humbled that anyone would care enough to check out my blog, read my posts, leave amazing comments or even bother following me period. If I lost all my followers today, I'd be thankful I had any to begin with!

I love hearing the things people come up with when you tell them you're a blogger. Tell me some of the humorous things you've heard (or even assumed yourself!) about bloggers.

P.S. You guys, I just want to note that none of this is intended to be offensive! Whilst a lot of bloggers do all of the above and that is amazing, my point is we all don't fit in one tiny box of expectations, blogging is different for everyone, and that's what makes it so great! Have a wonderful day everyone!

19 comments:

  1. This solidifies, if people don't already know, why you are so AWESOME!!! I am on the same page as you on all of these!!! I even had a colleague ask me if I was going to quit work!! Ha, guess they didn't hear me when I have answered 11 other people that I do not make money from it. My favorite quote from this "do what makes you happy!!" Amen sista!!! Happy Friday eve you beautiful and wise woman!!!

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    1. Andrea, you never cease to make me feel good! I was kind of worried writing this post as I feel like if you DO make money or you DO love social media that I was saying it as a negative thing and I really am not! I just think blogging has gotten so big these days that everyone assumes you are in it for the $$ LOL. I love my blog, I love what I'm doing with it, but I definitely do not do it for monetary reasons! And I have to say I could see you making big bucks off your blog because it is so good, but I can also see how much you love it and that's why I love your blog (and you!) so much! Thank you so much for stopping in my beautiful friend, you always put a huge smile on my face! XO -Kim

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  2. I think the question I get asked most often from people who aren't bloggers that I'm hanging out with is - are you going to blog about this? LOL it always makes me laugh!! I think there are tons of misconceptions but we get our little community! xo, Biana -BlovedBoston

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    1. Hahahaha, I actually love that one! I only got asked that once recently and I thought it was cute because I think they actually WANTED me to blog about it! I love it! Thanks so much for stopping in my gorgeous friend! XO -Kim

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  3. Love this! This is me for the most part. I have a personal facebook that I never use and no desire to set up one for the blog. I do have a twitter for my blog (thought I'd try it out) and I just really don't get it. I do like pinterest though...

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    1. I do love the bloggers that follow Pinterest, you guys pick out the best things and write about it so I live vicariously hahaha! Thanks so much for stopping in, happy to see your lovely face! XO -Kim

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  4. This is such a great post Kim! I think this is why I don't tell most people in "real life" about my blog; there are just so many misconceptions about what blogging is and isn't. Also, I totally agree with the Facebook thing. I am always behind when it comes to technology and I don't think that's a bad thing. Pinterest is another story! I am obsessed with collecting recipes and photos on that site. Do I ever use them? No, but doing so makes me feel like I am exercising some weird control over my life!

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    1. Same with me Katie! I told only a couple of my closest friends, my family doesn't even know. Hahaha you and me both, I work on computers everyday but I cannot keep up with all the technology going on! I love that Pinterest makes you feel like you have control over your life hahaha! I was on there for a while and pinned some things but I felt like the more I went and pinned the more overwhelmed I felt hahahaha. I love it! I hope you have a wonderful weekend my gorgeous friend! XO -Kim

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  5. I love this post so much Kim! I always get people thinking that because I love fashion and makeup that is all there is to me, it's ridiculous! Such an inspiring post beautiful keep doing what works for you! You are an amazing lady and blogger!

    Ella xx

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    1. Ella, isn't it ridiculous? I would never presume that a persons hobbies is all there is to them, that's just silly! You are such an inspiration to me Ella, I just adore you and I absolutely love your blog! You are such a beautiful, smart, funny person, I am so glad to know you! I hope you had a wonderful weekend my gorgeous friend! XO -Kim

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  6. Rainbow, I wish we lived closer because I would love to sit and pick your brain. I love and admire the fact that you think about the deeper meaning behind things like social media. I definitely think it can be a positive thing (for example I met you, who I otherwise would never know which is such a sad thing!) On the flip side sometimes we live our entire lives not even paying attention to the things right in front of us. It's such a strange phenomenon! I think that you are going to be HUGE when it comes to your blogging and youtube. You are such an amazing and inspirational person and that always comes across and no matter what, at the end of the day, you create the type of context that lasts! I truly adore you Rainbow. You are sweet, kind, genuine, caring, beautiful and a fantastic human being. I am so blessed to have gotten to know you and truly thank my lucky stars to have such a wonderful friend in my life! XO -Kim

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  7. YES KIM ! Perfectly put ! I don't often blog about beauty or make up ect.. however I do really enjoy reading those sorts of blogs and I completely understand where you're coming from ! I genuinely enjoy experimenting with my make up and seeing what I can do , I really like that in the morning I spend half hour with my music on just focusing on myself like I desserve and make up gives me that time but people assume its because of low self esteem and being ditsy which is just wrong :)

    I loved this post !

    Lots of love, Marianne xxx

    http://myhappybubblexx.blogspot.co.uk/

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    1. Marianne, I am the complete same! I LOVE being able to spend some time doing my makeup and playing around. I think it's so fun and creative to come up with new looks and to really hone your skill! So many people though think that you can't be more than a dumb girl if that's what you like. So funny! Thanks so much for your support my gorgeous, sweet, wonderful friend, I hope you have an amazing week! XO -Kim

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  8. Thank you SO MUCH for this amazing post, Kimmy!! And I couldn't agree with you more on all these ridiculous perceptions of bloggers by other people AND by other bloggers as well. When I told a random friend that I started a blog, I was laughed at and asked: "So like, what do you right about? What lipstick you used today and what you ate this morning?" *cue laughter* I politely explained what I blog about and told to go and check out the link. Another friend from the same company had the opposite reaction: "Wow!! I've always wanted to start one! Good job! Where can I find you?" #realfriend
    Also, I hear you on anxiety about social media, hon. Sometimes it is sooooo overwhelming to be "present" everywhere. I try my best to work on the most pages I use but it is extremely overwhelming. I like your tips,girlie. Awww wish we lived on the same continent but I am thankful for our friendship even if it's virtual at the moment. Maybe one day we will organise a meet-up just for a closer circle :)
    xox Nadia
    http://mielandmint.blogspot.co.uk/

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    1. It's true, other bloggers that are in different genres often make assumptions about eachother as well! I think it's such a brave thing to tell your friends that you have a blog, especially as most of us are super open and vulnerable. Shame on your friend for laughing at you! And I love that your other friend had that reaction! What a sweet supportive friend and she may be inspired to actually start her own blog now because of you! It is very overwhelming to feel that you need to be spread across so many forums when to be honest keeping up with my blog takes a lot of my down time! However, I am so happy I've made so many beautiful friends through the internet, so really it's quite a blessing. YOU are such a sweetheart, such a wonderful friend and such a beautiful person. I hope one day we can have a meetup with some close blogger friends, that would be so amazing! Thanks so much for stopping in Nadia and for your constant support, I hope you have a wonderful week my gorgeous, sweet friend. XO -Kim

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    2. Thanks so much for always taking time to write the most thoughtful comments & replies, girlie :)
      Hope you have a super amazing week!! xox Lots of love your way!

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    3. I love both of you!!!! XO -Kim

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  9. I'm saying this here but really this is a response to ALL your comments. Can we please just mutually agree on a place we can both live so that we can become BFF's in real life already? This needs to happen! XO -Kim

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  10. I think your plan sounds great! Definitely follow your dreams! Sometimes you have to explore new paths to get to where you're meant to be! I definitely want to visit New Zealand one day, but when I do you will have to come with me wherever you are and be my guide! I think what you are trying to achieve is so amazing and I know you will be able to do it because you are such an inspirational person! I love that you're taking your experiences and helping others. Fingers crossed times a million! Let me know if there is anything I can ever do to help! I would love it to happen sooner rather than later! You are such an inspiration to me, I can't wait for us to meet! Love, hugs and all the positive vibes your way my gorgeous friend! XO

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